Courageously Face Porn Addiction and Infidelity
You have been burdened with the pain of shame, isolation, and emptiness. There are parts of your story that are hard to look at. I am inviting you to know your story, rediscover who you are, and use your story to pave a path out of compulsive sexual behaviors.
Know Your Story
Heal Your Nervous System
Honor Your Body
It is critical to understand your origin story to step into your authority to author the next chapter of your life.
As you metabolize unresolved pain from your story, you will rewire your neural pathways.
Through discerning the wisdom of your emotions, you will strike a peace between your values and sexuality.
Here’s Why I’m On A Mission To Help Men Recover From Compulsive Sexual Behavior
I have excavated a deep wound from my distant relationship with my dad. A subtle coping mechanism to win love from my mom. Chronic anxiety and humiliation as a child. An embarrassing fetish that confirmed my need to hide parts of myself. A confusing misalignment of my faith and my sexuality. Shame had me in a choke-hold.
I started to dig into my painful story. I started to notice how my self-sabotaging tendencies were connected to old wounds. I started to give a voice to the emotions that I stuffed down for decades.
I slowly started chipping away at the darkness that lived around me and finding out that who I am, underneath all of that darkness, is worth discovering. The real intimacy, connection, and delight I get to experience in my marriage, my calling, and brotherhood far surpasses anything sexual fantasy tried to seduce me with.
What I want for you is not just behavioral modification, but true freedom.
I have been coaching men struggling with the shame of porn addiction. I have been coaching men who bare the confusion and heartache of infidelity. I have read and engaged hundreds of stories of wounded men. I don’t want men to simply cut unhealthy sexual behavior out of their lives. I want them to excavate its roots, understand their deepest longings, and heal their nervous system so freedom and wholeness can be restored.
Take the 5-Month Journey to Recover Wholeness in Sexuality
- 21 weekly one-on-one storywork coaching calls
- 21 reflective assignments
- 18 video modules
- Sexual Behavior Self Assessssment
Your History
Dig into your childhood wound stories. See the impact of your family of origin. Sniff out the roots of shame and contempt.
Present Day
Listen to your lust to understand longings. Renew your relationship with your emotions. Learn how hijackers sabotage your life
Wholeness
Build practices to get your core needs met. Create new styles of relating. Utilize community to discover purpose.
Journeying with a Small Group
Interested in journeying with others? Groups are intentionally small to foster plenty of time for you to explore your sexual story and practice new ways to engage relationships. You will experience new levels of being truly known, intimacy with others, and wholeness.
“This course is powerful and soul-stirring” – Small Group Participant
What Could Recovery Mean For You?
It provided a new and deeper perspective into the world of recovery but also helped me understand my story better and have more grace for myself
Cedric
"I Numb Out to Survive"
Through feeling and honoring your body’s emotions, you will create space for vitality and connection to arise.
"I Don't Know What to Do"
Through excavating your story, you will discover clarity within your identity and purpose.
"My Sexual Acting Out Is Out of Control"
Through listening to your lust and understanding the message it is telling you, you will experience peace and build confidence in your self-control.
"I Can Hardly Look at Myself"
Through sniffing out where shame entered your story, you will free up your innate goodness and fall in love with the man in the mirror.
What Could Recovery From Unwanted Sexual Addiction Mean For You?
“I am grateful for one of the deepest healing and growth opportunities. Also it’s amazing that such a program is even available. I believe that this is a benefit of the age”
George
Modalities I Work From
A life that is free of unhealthy sexual behaviors is one of real intimacy and love. It is seeing the beauty of your spouse without the distraction or destruction of porn or infidelity. I have been trained in Betrayal Trauma, Parts-Work, Inner Child Work, Narcissistic Abuse, Polyvagal Theory, and Childhood Sexual Abuse. I am a Storywork Practitioner, Recovery Coach, and Trauma-Informed Somatic Coach.
It Is Time For You To Bounce Back From Your Addiction
“This 5-month program was transformational for me. It has completely changed my idea of recovery.”
Kevin
Pornography is not a real depiction of sex
Understanding the stories that your sexual fantasy are telling will be critical to understand why you continue a behavior that you do not want. Then you will be in a position to pursue a holy and beautiful sex life; one that is way more fulfilling and delightful than watching sex on a screen. You don’t just need abstinence, but a hunger for beauty.
Will she ever trust me again?
Infidelity takes wisdom to navigate. Her need for restoring trust, hope, and love is critical for the relationship to survive. And you can help her. Your old relationship will need to die, so there is soil for a renewed relationship. It will require patience and rewiring, but it is possible, as I have seen it time and time again.